Jania, congratulations on 21 yEARs of wedded bliss! My husband and I are coming up on our 20th wedding anniversary, so I'd be happy to share my thoughts about some ways to add some pixie dust to your already magical celebration.
The restaurant on every Disney fan's bucket list is Victoria & Albert's. The ultimate meal would be to dine at the coveted Chef's Table in the heart of Victoria & Albert's kitchen.
For something equally magical, but less formal, my go-to pick is California Grill. For a unique meal, I'd recommend Brunch at the Top which is a relaxing feast served on Sundays with a sweeping view of Magic Kingdom.
Even though your daughter has outgrown the princesses, you might want to look into Storybook Dining at Artist Point with Snow White at Disney's Wilderness Lodge Resort. Guests are raving about this new prix fixe dining experience, and where else can you get a selfie with Dopey and Grumpy? My favorite way to get to this resort is via ferryboat, but you'll need to take the Monorail to Magic Kingdom Park first.
Speaking of the Monorail, how about doing the
Highway in the Sky Dine Around? This is a five-course progressive dinner that stops at all three resorts on the Monorail Line, ending with dessert at Disney's Contemporary Resort and watching the Happily Ever After fireworks from the 5th-floor balcony. This experience is intended for Guests ages 12 and older, so if your daughter is mature, she'd probably enjoy it.
Lastly, for some family-friendly fun, try Disney's Spirit of Aloha Dinner Show. The Cast Members put on quite a performance and love to acknowledge special celebrations during the show. Celebration cakes are available for an added charge and should be ordered 48 hours in advance by calling (407) 827-2253.
I hope your celebrations are fantastic, Jania!
Eean