Robert,
I understand that all the hype for the Cinderella Castle experience can make it seem like the only place for that iconic Princess greeting experience. But believe me when I say, it is not.
I have recommended to many friends, with great results, that they swap out Cinderella Castle with the
Akershus Royal Banquet Hall experience. For a lower cost you get an equally castle-like atmosphere, the same number of princesses, sometimes with more variety, and comparable quality food. Sure, you are not in
THE castle. But you are in
A castle. My girls have actually found that the public space activities, like the march around the dining room, make it even more interactive.
I think that will work for you!
Have a magical (and delicious) vacation!