Hi, Lezlie! There is a separate children's menu available at the Spirit of Aloha dinner show, and in many cases, you won't have to request the children's meal. Most of the time, they have just provided the kid friendly menu for our table. If they do not in your case, you simply have to ask.
The adult menu includes a salad, fresh pineapple, and delicious pineapple-coconut bread. Your main course usually consists of pork ribs, roasted chicken, rice and vegetables.
The menu they will bring for children includes macaroni and cheese; chicken nuggets; peanut butter and jelly; and hot dogs.
I hope your family enjoys the show and has a wonderful meal!