Ahoy RafAel!
It is great to assist you and please don't apologize because it is my pleasure to help you with all your cruise plans!
On the day before your cruise, you will receive either a written letter or voicemail in your resort room with a specific pick-up time and location for your departure morning. Usually luggage is picked up around 8:00am from your resort room and Guest pick-up around 10:00-11:00am. I wish I could tell you an exact time, but times vary sailing to sailing.
Parasailing is a wonderful choice for your adventure on Castaway Cay, but the Port Adventure operator is very strict about the age requirements so your daughter will not be able to participate. If you still want to experience this excursion, she can check-in the kids' club on the island,
Scuttle's Cove while you are parasailing. My kids love going to the club on Castaway Cay so I'm sure she'll have a blast!
The Oceaneer Club and Lab onboard all the Disney ships is included in the price of your cruise fare. Reservations are not required at all, and your kids can check-in and out as often as you would like. Registration for the kids' club can be on online in the Planning Center section of the website. You will need to log-in with your reservation first before you can access your reservation. You can also register at the cruise terminal, but if the line is long, just wait until you board the ship and visit Oceaneer Club or Lab in person.
I hope these answers help, and I would love to hear from you again so please keep me posted!
Have a wonderful day!
Nancy