Shannon,
OK, so with two boys, here are the ones I would go to, and the resort experience I would time with them.
Whispering Canyon Cafe
The tops of the list for this kind of dining fun. The Wilderness Lodge is ideally suited for that holiday theme, and this restaurant is perfect for your boys. Good food to boot!
'Ohana
Go early and check out the Grand Floridian, especially the gingerbread house in the lobby that is so big that they have a store that sells gingerbread houses inside!
After this wonderfully themed Polynesian dinner, enjoy the ambiance of the resort, possibly even catching the fireworks from the Magic Kingdom from the beach, if they are not too late in the evening and it is not too cold out.
Chef Mickey's
Check out the Contemporary at this fantastic character meal.
Boma
This wonderfully inventive buffet gets you a viewing at the most colorful and exotic resort on property. Another must holiday stop.
I hope this helps get you started! There are other resorts with things to see, but these are my very favorite, for both the food and the scenery!
Have a magical (and delicious) vacation!