Welcome to the Disney Parks Mom Panel, Jannie! Thank you so much for bringing us your question.
How exciting to be taking your 4-year-old daughter to Walt Disney World. That is definitely a magical age to visit. I took my daughter when she was roughly the same age. I loved watching her face when she met her favorite Disney characters.
Here are some great character dining experiences I think she will really love:
Cinderella's Royal Table - Breakfast, lunch or dinner at Cinderella Castle with the princesses
Akershus Royal Dining Hall - Breakfast, lunch or dinner with princesses in the Norway Pavilion in Epcot
Crystal Palace - Breakfast, lunch or dinner with Winnie The Pooh & his pal in the Magic Kingdom
Chef Mickey's - Breakfast, lunch or dinner with Mickey, Minnie & friends at Disney's Contemporary Resort
'Ohana - Breakfast with Lilo & Stitch at Disney's Polynesian Village Resort
Cape May Café - Breakfast with Chip & Dale (and a few of their buddies) at Disney's Beach Club Resort
Any of these will be great choses for your daughter. I hope this helps with your planning. If you have any other questions please come back and see me.
Wishing you a magical Disney vacation and a pixie-dusted day!
Sue N., IN