Hi Wendy! It is nice to see you here at planDisney again with another great question.
When
making a dining reservation at Disneyworld.com or on the
My Disney Experience mobile app, Guests select a primary Reservation Contact. The default is the account holder, although it is possible to assign someone else in your
Family & Friends list to be the Reservation Contact. Once the reservation has been confirmed, the Reservation Contact cannot be changed. Since you selected your husband as a member of your dining party, as long as you are connected through Family & Friends, he and anyone else listed on the reservation will be able to view it under "My Plans" in their My Disney Experience account. Only the Reservation Contact (in this case you) may modify or cancel the reservation.
If you would like to assign your husband as the Reservation Contact on any future reservations you make, use the arrow next to your name in the Reservation Contact field to select from your Family & Friends list.
Wendy, I am wishing you and your family a wonderful vacation! Please stop by and let us know if you have any additional questions.
Anne Marie