Hi Paquita! Thanks for the great question! Your little princess is going to absolutely love being at Disney World for her birthday!
You can book your dining and
Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique starting on April 15, 2012, 180 days before your arrival, and I suggest you do so right away on that day. Circle your calendar! There are two Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique locations to choose from, one in Cinderella Castle and one at Downtown Disney.
Cinderella's Royal Table in the Magic Kingdom would be the perfect spot for your princess! What girl wouldn't want to eat in the most beautiful castle, surrounded by princesses and the Fairy Godmother?
Akershus Royal Banquet Hall in Epcot's Norway is another great spot where she'll dine with the princesses.
Cinderella's Happily Ever After Dinner at 1900 Park Fare in the Grand Floridian Resort - This is a delicious buffet, where you'll be visited by Cinderella and Prince Charming, as well as her step mother and step sisters, who are hilarious.
Port Orleans Riverside is a fantastic resort. As a guest of this resort, you are able to also use the pool at Port Orleans French Quarter, which I think your daughter will love. The slide is a huge, friendly dragon, which my daughter loved at her age!
Hope this helps Paquita! Write back with any other questions!