Hi Lori,
Welcome to planDisney! Disney has done a great job of revamping their
Services for Guests Who are Neurodivergent. I recommend checking out their comprehensive guide and considering whether or not Disability Access Services (DAS) is an option for your family. We have navigated the theme parks several times with members of our party who are neurodivergent and there are a lot of options to help make your friend feel safe and comfortable while on vacation.
There is a program called
Disability Access Service (DAS) that can be helpful if waiting in a traditional queue is something that is especially triggering or difficult for a guest. You will have to apply for this service through an online chat before your trip and explain to the cast member why lines are particularly difficult and how you navigate them at home. If your guest qualifies, this service allows you to spend your wait time in whatever location is most comfortable for you. We like to spend our wait time in a nice shady place away from the crowds with a fun snack or drink.
I think it is helpful to review the
sensory experiences in each attraction to know which ones are best to avoid for your personal situation and which ones are good to go! I also like to review the map a little bit before arriving so I know where there are good places to go and relax that will allow for limited stimuli if we encounter an emergency overload during our trip. Disney World has a
list of places that offer a more quiet environment. My favorite place to stop with a little one is the Baby Care Centers located at each theme park. These often have calm spaces where you can relax if needed!
Happy Planning,
Jenna