Hey, Raychel - love the spelling of your name!
I really hope my answer helps you decide, but I'm afraid I have to tell you that this is really a personal thing. You know your daughter better than anyone else. My now 17 year old would have absolutely died from embarrassment if I had booked her at Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique when she was 13. She would have thought she was way too cool and way too sophisticated to do something like that. Now that she's 17, and going on her senior trip with her class to Walt Disney World, they all want to go and have something done at the boutique! The teenage girl is a very unusual creature!
I have done Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique twice, both with younger girls, and most of the other guests in the boutique seem to be younger girls - I would say between ages 3 and 10. But, on both visits, there were even adults getting all Princess pampered and perfect!
Ask your daughter if it's something she'd like to do. Let her browse the website
HERE to see if she's interested. If she thinks she's too cool and too sophisticated, you could book her an appointment at one of the spas at Walt Disney World and have a manicure and pedicure done! I think Mom deserves one too - after all, you're raising a teenage daughter!