Hey Alene,
Thanks for stopping by the Disney Parks Moms Panel with your dining question! As a mom of four with one child who is a rather picky eater, I can certainly understand your concern. I have always found that the servers at Disney restaurants do their very best to accommodate Guests.
Although it can depend on the restaurant location, my 11-year-old son has been allowed to order a kids' menu item at Table-Service restaurants. Another option we've been given is to order an adult portion of a kids' meal. This is particularly helpful if your daughter has a hearty appetite, but prefers a kids' menu item. Guests may begin booking
Advanced Dining Reservations 180 days in advance by calling Disney Dining at 407) WDW-DINE or (407) 939-3463, via My Disney Experience app or by going online.
I hope this information is helpful to you. If you have any additional questions, please don't hesitate to reach out again. Best wishes for a magical trip, Alene!
Bon Appétit,
Jodie