Geneiva,
There are a lot of great things to do, both for your 7 year old's birthday and for your anniversary.
For both
celebrations, make sure you get your celebration buttons and wear them everywhere. Cast members will not only congratulate you, but you might get some nice surprises here and there.
For the
birthday, there are a lot of fun extras, not all of which have to break your budget. I like the small mini-cakes that you can order at most table service restaurants. The container is a cute collectible too. In-room decoration packages are great too, though certainly a bit more expensive. I think you get a lot for your money, but you have to be the judge of that.
As for the anniversary, a lot of options apply there. But if it were me, and my daughters were that age, I would drop them off at one of the
Child Activity Centers. They are located in a few of the Deluxe resort hotels, though you don't have to be staying there! I would then treat me and my wife to a spa treatment, followed by a romantic dinner.
Write me back for more ideas!
Have a magical vacation!