Jennifer,
No apologies! It is hard to get all the info into 1 question!
So here is what I would suggest;
- November 10 - Arrival Day (see below)
- Whispering Canyon Cafe (D)
- November 11 - Magic Kingdom
- November 12 - OPEN
- November 13 - NON WDW DAY 1
- November 14 - Hollywood Studios
- November 15 - Non WDW DAY 2
- November 16 - Animal Kingdom
- November 17 - Epcot
- November 18 - NON WDW DAY 3
- November 19 - Magic Kingdom
- November 20 - OPEN
- November 21 - Hollywood Studios
- November 22 - Departure Day
With as much time as you are getting in Orlando, I would never rush to a park on your arrival day. You will only get partial time, and what a waste that would be! Instead relax, get some pool time and plan a nice dinner.
As to the Park Hopper, with a 1 year old, I would not do it. You can see all you need in your 6 park days, so why spend time on buses when you can be in parks?
I tried to space out your park days, so that the magic was spread out throughout the week!
Have a magical vacation!