Keith,
I am glad to help out, but the park schedules for November, including information on what night that Fantasmic is held, are not yet available. If you write me back in the first few weeks of August I can have more information and work out a schedule for you that plans it all out.
Remember to repeat a lot of the helpful info that you have here in your new question, like arrival/departure days and times, as well as cuisine likes/dislikes and where you are staying. Oh, and ask for dining recommendations on a separate question after I get you a park schedule, as there is not enough room in a single reply for both, typically.
Until that time, some suggestions for park plans include;
- Make the Magic Kingdom the first park you visit
- Save your last night for Epcot, and the IllumiNations fireworks show
- Fantasmic is not held as often as IllumiNations or Wishes, so you may need to work your schedule around that show
I look forward to hearing from you soon!
Have a magical vacation!