Patti,
Since Wishes is held every night, you should not have any problem picking one of the Magic Kingdom evenings to watch it. Fantasmic! is a different matter, with performances just on the 19th and 23rd during your stay. That being considered, here is what I would do;
- September 18 - Arrival Day
- September 19 - Magic Kingdom
- September 20 - Hollywood Studios
- September 21 - Epcot
- September 22 - Animal Kingdom
- September 23 - Hollywood Studios (Fantasmic! Night)
- September 24 - Epcot
- September 25 - Magic Kingdom
- September 26 - Departure Day
Now if I can help with meal suggestions, just write me back with
a) Where you will be (park, resort area, Downtown Disney, etc.)
b) What kind of meal you want (table service/quick service/character meal, dinner show, etc.)
c) Cuisines you like, and dislike
I am glad to help more!
Have a magical vacation!