Hey Sandi! Nice to hear from a fellow Ontarian! You and your family will have a blast with all that you're planning! My first choice is the
Fantasmic! Dinner Package at the Hollywood Studios. You'll enjoy a yummy meal and a great show. Given the ages of your boys, I would probably drop Mickey's Backyard BBQ off your list. It's a super fun BBQ, and the kids love dancing with Mickey and his pals, but in my opinion is more geared towards the younger ones.
We did the
Hoop-Dee-Doo Musical Review when my daughter was 10 and had a blast. The food was great, and the entertainment fun for all ages. I'd have this one as number two on your list.
Spirit of Aloha at the Polynesian combines delicious food with hula dancing, knives and fire. Make it number three.
Although not dinner shows, your boys might enjoy dinner at the Wilderness Lodge's Whispering Canyon Cafe. Your dinner will be complete with lots of crazy antics and activities.
Hope this helps Sandi! Have fun!