Connie,
Don't despair. Here are a few ideas of what you can do to plan in a logical order.
1.
Big Picture planning: This page gives you some basic advice on budget planning, considering when to visit, transportation, etc.
2. Make your reservations: Once you know your budget, when you will visit, your ticket plan, and how you will get here, you can make your reservations. The accommodations section can help you find the right hotel, and
this page can show you some of the perks of staying at Disney, including information on the Dining Plan.
3. Plan you park days and meals. You can check park schedules in the
Plan section of the site, and check out restaurants by location, cuisine, and other factors at the
dining section.
4. Ask for advice! Whether it is friends at home who have already been here, or a certain panel of savvy moms (and two dads!), let the experiences of others help you get first-hand knowledge of what attractions, meals, and other activities are ideal for your family.
If you want to ask me more specific questions, just go to my bio page to ask!
Have a magical vacation!