Hi Glenda!
For the ultimate Tea experience, the Grand Floridian's
My Disney Girl's Perfectly Princess Tea Party is perfect! This mother-daughter experience is quite over-the-top and full of surprises. From a meet and greet with Aurora to take-home gifts, it will definitely create memories which last forever! For a less organized version, without the Princess or gifts, the Garden View Lounge also offers an afternoon tea.
Also at the Grand Floridian,
1900 Park Fare offers the Wonderland Tea Party in the afternoon. Along with some time with the characters from Wonderland, your princess will be served a "tea" and cupcakes. Although not as involved as the Tea Party above, it is a great (budget friendly) alternative that is sure to please!
For a complete Princess experience, you can check out the
Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. With two locations, one in the Magic Kingdom and one at Downtown Disney, you're sure to have a wonderful time watching her being transformed before your eyes!
Last, but not least, when you check into your Disney resort, be sure you receive a calendar of events for the resort's activities. There are pool parties, crafts, and lots of special events which will happen right at the hotel (and many are free!). Some are very unique: African Storytelling by the campfire at Animal Kingdom Lodge and Hula dances at the Polynesian for example. They are definitely worth checking out!
Hope this helps! Have fun planning your first trip and please be sure to let the Moms Panel know if we can help with additional details!