Hi Carrie,
It sure sounds like you have a fantastic visit to Walt Disney World planned for 2013! Here are some suggestions to make your trip even more magical:-
1/ Make a dining reservation for a Character Meal by calling (407)
939-3463 up to 180 days in advance of your visit.
2/ Arrange an In-Room celebration through Disney Floral & Gifts. (http://www.disneyflorist.com)
3/ Arrange for some gifts to be waiting upon your arrival at your Disney Resort hotel through Disney Floral & Gifts.
Another idea would be to make an advanced reservation
for a
Special Experience like the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique, The Pirates
League, or a hair cut at the
Harmony Barbershop in the Magic Kingdom.
You will find lots of other ideas on the
Customize Your Special Occasion page of the Walt Disney World website.
I would also be sure to pick up a complimentary first visit button when you
check-in at your Disney Resort hotel or from Guest Relations as you
enter one of the Disney Parks for your 4-year old to wear
throughout your stay.
I hope that this has given you some ideas and wish you a magical trip!