Hi, Teri! I am glad you are enjoying the Moms Panel site! I hope you are finding it helpful as you plan your first magical WDW vacation! The first stop for vacation planning should be
www.disneyworld.com. This is a great place for choosing your resort, finding attractions that look fun, park hours and calendars and you can even book your vacation.
For more in-depth information, visit www.allears.net. This site has complete menus, park updates, traveler reviews and more. Sign-up for their free e-newsletter for all the latest WDW news!
If you are looking for a good travel book for first time visitors, you might like The Complete Idiot's Guide to Walt Disney World. This book helps cover all the basics you will need for your first trip.
As far as the refillable mugs go, they are available for purchase at WDW resorts for use at your resort during your stay, but they are not available in the theme parks.
And my final favorite place for great travel information:
www.disneyworldmoms.com of course! We are happy to help you as you plan for your vacation, so let us know if you have any additional questions! Have fun planning!