Hi Allan! Thanks for dropping by planDisney.
Unfortunately, there's no current ability to link a
dining reservation your wife made to your
Disneyland mobile app or the ones you made to hers. While you'll see the dining reservations each of you made under "My Plans" on your MyDisney accounts and you can access them in the app, you can't share those plans with each other. I'm sorry if that makes things challenging.
I find that my husband and I both end up using our Disneyland mobile apps while we're in the parks, however. One of us will end up placing a mobile order for food and beverage, while the other is making our Lightning Lane Multi Pass arrangements, and therefore, having dining reservations on two apps doesn't present an additional hurdle. We both make use of the app during our park day anyway. I hope it doesn't complicate your visit for you either.
Dining is one of my favorite parts of a Disneyland Resort vacation. I hope you grabbed all the reservations you were hoping for! If you're still picking a spot or two, my two favorites are
Napa Rose in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel & Spa for its beautiful meals and
Blue Bayou Restaurant in New Orleans Square at Disneyland Park, which features the immersive experience of dining at twilight in the bayou. If you're looking for other yummy dining ideas, check out
Disney Eats, where you'll find festival food guides, dining updates, and more.
I hope you have a yummy visit!
Elizabeth