Hello Lisa!
I am so EXCITED for your daughter AND your whole family! You all are going to have the MOST MAGICAL time!
My recommendation is to choose one Disney Park per day to maximize your time. Trying to park hop from one Disney Park to another is very time consuming and very tiring. Also, try your best to arrive when each Disney Park opens. That way you can take advantage of the low crowds before the large crowds start to arrive around 10:30 AM.
As you plan for your trip to maximize your time, I would like to recommend the order to visit each Disney Park.
Day 1: Magic Kingdom - You are going at the PERFECT time because the Grand Opening of
Fantasyland Expansion is December 6th, 2012! This expansion is going to be truly MAGICAL in every way!
Day 2: Disney's Hollywood Studios - Your family will LOVE this Disney Park. From
Toy Story Mania to
Beauty and the Beast - Live on Stage, your daughter will truly love every moment!
Day 3: Disney's Animal Kingdom - If your daughter likes animals, she will LOVE this Disney Park! Make sure you see
Finding Nemo - The Musical.
Day 4: EPCOT - Make sure you check out
The Seas with Nemo and Friends Pavilion! The aquarium is just amazing!
If you need something else, please let me know!
Have a MAGICAL day!
Wes