Hello Lynn!
WOW! You sure do have a lot of celebrations during your vacation in July! Can you celebrate my Grandmother and Aunt's birthdays while you are there? OK, let's start with your 20th anniversary and birthday... first. congratulations! I would try to have a very, very nice dinner at
Victoria and Albert's or maybe one of the fine restaurants at Epcot. It really depends on who has reservations for when you will be there but at least you can have a little bit of alone time. Maybe, your niece can watch the kids while you eat.
For your Niece, I would have a special celebration cake made for her during one of your dinners and also you could buy her a graduation cap with Mickey ears on it. If she wears it throughout the parks, I am sure she will be congratulated a million times!
For the kids, a nice character meal is always a blast! Keep an eye on the
Disney Dining webpage to see if meals become available and also try to call the reservations line as well. If you cannot get one prior to your trip, you can always try to get a reservation while you are there or simply try to walk in.
Finally, definitely take in at least one
"Move it, Shake it, Celebrate it! Street Party" at Magic Kingdom! It's a celebration of all of your accomplishments plus a dance party all in one! My kids love dancing around the hub with all of the characters!
Thank you so much for asking the Moms Panel! I hope you have a fantastic vacation at Walt Disney World!