I'd love to help out! Make sure you get a birthday button for them as
soon as you check-in at your resort. Cast Members will love to share
Birthday Wishes (and, sometimes, Birthday Magic) with her!
First, I'll definitely suggest a special meal with the Characters. There are a number of them to choose from -
Cinderella's Royal Table, Crystal Palace, and
Chef Mickey's
are three great options. You'll want to make reservations as early as
you can (up to 180 days in advance) as these meals are very popular!
Personalized birthday cakes can be arranged in advance by calling (407) 827-2253. At sit down restaurants, you can also ask at the podium about having a small cake as well - but you may not need to - many restaurants will offer a cupcake as a special birthday treat.
If you want to have more of a splash, the gifts arranged by
Disney Floral & Gifts are spectacular!
And, while it isn't completely birthday related - If you have the budget for splurging a bit, a great experience for both boys and girls is the Pirate's League! You'll be able to watch your kids be transformed into pirates right before your eyes!
Hope this helps! Have a great trip!