Hi Ethel! I am so sad to read your post as I hate it when guests are not able to get a dream dining reservation. I am going to send tons of pixie dust your way that somehow you will be able to eat there during your next visit.
First, never give up and keep checking for a reservation daily and even several times a day. Believe it or not guests will cancel their times for the famous
Be Our Guest Restaurant. Keep checking on line and something might come up. Many guests have kept looking at the reservations even during their vacation and found an opening on the same day.
If that does not work then head to the restaurant at off times such as mid day. It never hurts to ask about getting a walk-up table. It doesn't happen very often but it is not impossible. I would explain that you have been trying for three years to get a table and if they still cannot seat you ask if you could simply peak in and take a picture as you so want to see the dining rooms that you have heard so much about.
Most cast members are very kind and accommodating but if they are crazy busy don't try it then. They won't have time to chat and escort you to the doors. I am really hoping that this is the year that sought after reservation comes to you magically. Be persistent, keep checking the app or on line, and believe!