Hi, Kim!
Without hesitation, I would make your number one priority the
Magic Kingdom. While all of the Parks are geared towards Guests of all ages, the Magic Kingdom is the quintessential storybook come to life. It's Mickey, Minnie, and a host of Princesses, available to meet all day.
Magic Kingdom will allow your little one to experience rides and characters she has met through stories, movies, and songs. She'll see two parades (Celebrate a Dream Come True, and the Main Street Electrical), dance at a street party (Move It, Shake It, Celebrate It!), and enjoy the nighttime spectacular, Wishes, followed by The Magic, The Memories, and You, a glorious show projected onto Cinderella Castle.
The next Park I'd suggest is Disney's Hollywood Studios. At her age, this Park has a variety of options, including the darling Disney Junior Live on Stage! show. This show at is cast with hand puppets and the audience is seated on the floor. Your child might have a better viewing experience from further back. They will not miss out on anything -- the entire theater will be rocking with Handy Manny, Jake, the Neverland Pirates, and Mickey Mouse!
At the Studios, she'll also find the
Lights, Motors, Action! show, starring none other than Lightning McQueen! She might also enjoy
Beauty and the Beast Live on Stage, or
Voyage of the Little Mermaid. And call (407) WDW-DINE to make a reservation at Hollywood and Vine, where she'll meet Handy Manny, Special Agent Oso, and the Little Einsteins.
If you'd like me to break out Epcot and Animal Kingdom for you, please contact me through www.DisneyWorldMoms.com! And yes, certainly plan on including those Parks in your itinerary (only space limitations are making me stop! ;)
See you later, celebrator!
-Deborah B.