Hello, Wendie!
Welcome to planDisney! I'm so sorry to hear that your husband is battling cancer, I know that must take an incredible toll on your entire family. I hope that you'll be able to find some happy thoughts during your visit to the Disneyland Resort that will last forever.
Disneyland Resort Theme Park Tickets are non-transferable, which means the same person needs to use each day of a multi-day ticket. So in your case, you won't be able to use your tickets on Monday and then have your daughter use those same tickets on Wednesday. Your daughter will need to purchase tickets for herself and her children. It is possible to change the name on a ticket if it hasn't been used at all yet, so you may want to consider calling the
Tickets phone number to speak to a Cast Member and see if it makes more sense to change the name on your tickets to your daughter so that you and your husband can purchase single day tickets.
Only you and your husband can decide what he feels well enough to accomplish, but I do want to share that there are plenty of places in Disneyland Park and Disney California Adventure Park to take breaks and relax. Some of my favorites are:
You might also consider
renting a wheelchair or Electric Conveyance Vehicle (ECV) to help your husband conserve his energy. If you will be using a wheelchair then make sure you take a look at the
Guide for Guests with Disabilities for Disneyland Park and the
Guide for Guests with Disabilities for Disney California Adventure Park. Those guides do a great job explaining accessibility for attractions and other important details.
Wendie, even if you aren't able to stay for a whole day in the parks I hope that the time you do spend is full of pixie dust, core memories, and smiles. You are experiencing a huge challenge, and I think it's wonderfully brave that you are taking the opportunity to travel with your family. I know that every mile will be worth it and that your daughter and grandchildren will be inspired by their amazing grandparents.
If you have other questions I would be happy to help, just let me know and I'll be back in a flash. Sending you and your family lots of hugs, courage, and pixie dust!
Keep moving forward!
Amanda