Hi again, Damiccah, I love helping to plan Disney vacations!
Here's what I recommend as an "extra special treat" for each of them.
For your 5 year-old son:
Pirates League is super fun. Your little boy is sure to love this.
Your 7 & 8 year-old little girls would enjoy
Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. If you choose the Crown Package that includes hairstyling, shimmering makeup and nails and is reasonably priced. From the pixie dust in their hair to the polish on their nails, they'll feel like little Princesses. They can also do the "Pirate Empress" package at Pirates League instead.
Your 10 year-old daughter may enjoy
Horseback Riding at Fort Wilderness. Another option is the "Mother and Daughter Spa Treatment or a "My First Spa Experience" with you at the
Saratoga Springs Spa or the
Grand Floridian Spa.
I recommend that your husband and oldest son spend an hour out on Bay Lake enjoying the
Sea Raycers. As long as he is both 12 years old
and 5 ft tall, he can drive his own. If he's not that tall, he can still ride with his Dad and they'll have a blast. My sons love this!
If you're looking for an extra special experience for your whole family, try the
Pirates and Pals Fireworks Voyage. We've done this as a "Grand Finale" on our last night and it is a blast!
Hope this helps,
Kaylene