Thanks for following up with me, Jennifer. Let's see if we can get this straightened out together! As for which meal plan would be the best fit for you, it depends on your preferences. If you are looking to save money and don't mind eating quick-service (think fast food) for all of your meals, then the Quick-Service Dining plan might be your best bet. If you'd prefer to enjoy half of your meals at quick service locations and the other half in table service, then the Magic Your Way plus dining package is a good bet. For those who really want to splurge with the fewest dining restrictions, the premium package is the way to go.
As for the best value for a party of four, it really depends on when you plan to visit. Disney offers some great discounts throughout the year. I would recommend you check the
special offers page for current and upcoming promotions. I will say, though, that some of the best deals are offered in the fall, in my opinion. Few, if any, discounts are offered during the busiest time periods (including spring break, Christmas and Easter).
In order to take advantage of one of Disney's dining plans, you will need to purchase a vacation package. Your theme park tickets will be included in that. Those tickets will grant you access to one theme park per day (the choice as to which one is up to you) unless you upgrade to include the park hopper option or the water parks and more option, or both. My character count is limited, but I do hope you'll follow up with me with additional questions if I can help!