Hi Karen!
Thank you for bringing your question to the Disney Parks Moms Panel!
My family and I have been to
Disney's Spirit of Aloha Dinner Show a few times. We have always enjoyed our evenings there!
The food is good. It's not delicious and isn't what makes the show so much fun, but it is definitely tasty. It's all-you-care-to eat so if you run out, don't be shy about asking for more. The bread is definitely one of my favorite things they serve. I always ask for seconds (and thirds) of that!
There is a time in the show when children are allowed to join in the fun. Usually, adults are invited, too!
The show and luau are both very entertaining. I think you and your family would all enjoy it!
I hope this helps! Please let me know if you have any other questions.