Howdy, Chely,
I'm happy you came to the Disney Parks Moms Panel. It's nice to connect with other parents with experiences similar to my own. I too am a parent of children on the autism spectrum. One child in particular had challenges with waiting in attraction lines. The stimulation overload nearly led to meltdowns. But over time, we developed strategies for helping our children cope. They have even progressed enough that they can visit an attraction on their own when our family separates for different activities.
Of course, every child is unique. And with that come unique needs. To help accommodate those needs, it is important to consult with a Cast Member at one of the
main Guest Relations locations near the entrance of each park. These Cast Members are specially trained to provide guidance for utilizing the accommodations implemented by the Disneyland Resort for
guests with disabilities, including for
guests with cognitive disabilities. During the consultation, guests with particular needs that prevent waiting in a conventional queue may be enrolled in the Disability Access Service. Documentation is not required. Note that a photo of the disabled guest will be taken.
One of our favorite things to do to help a child relax is to watch a show such as
Mickey and the Magical Map. The Fantasyland Theatre that hosts this show is spacious, so our children don't feel trapped in a small space. And the outdoor-like venue allows for a quick and easy escape if anxieties start to bubble over.
I hope you have a magical time, Chely.
~Tony