Hi Sandra! Welcome to the Disney Parks Moms Panel!
Your trip is coming up soon and I know your whole family must be SO excited! My family dined at
Cinderella's Royal Table less than two weeks ago and it was a truly magical experience!
As long as your party shows up for the dining reservation, you will not be charged a cancellation fee, so no worries there! As for the potential sleeping kiddos, you should be able to have the bill adjusted to reflect the non-eaters. Just let the Cast Member assisting you know your situation once you are seated at your table. I have the pickiest eaters on the planet in my family, and on our trip last week we often picked up food from another Quick-Service location and had our kids munch on that while my husband and I enjoyed our favorite
Table-Service restaurants. In each of those instances, we were not charged for our children at the Table-Service restaurants. The Cast Members were very understanding!
I hope you have the BEST vacation, Sandra! Please let us know if you have any other questions.
Tabitha