Hi Helen!
Walt Disney World is definitely THE place to be when you want to celebrate! And, boy, do you have a lot to celebrate!
Make sure you stop by Guest Relations to request special buttons for "First Visit" and "Happy Birthday" for those who are celebrating. The Cast Members enjoy recognizing these special celebrations throughout your visit in the Parks & Resorts!
I would start on Disney's website page offering wonderful ideas for celebrations by clicking
HERE.
Disney does a great job with special tours and experiences. You can choose from several options by clicking
HERE. I would highly recommend the "Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique" experience for your daughter, and the "Family Magic Tour" as something you could all do together.
In addition, look into some of the special dining experiences, such as the
Character Dining Experiences, or one of the
Dinner Shows, such as Disney's Spirit of Aloha Show at the Polynesian Resort, or Mickey's Backyard BBQ or the Hoop-Dee-Doo Musical Revue, both at Fort Wilderness Campground.
You could also arrange for an "In Room Celebration" from the Dream Makers at
Disney Floral & Gifts.
There is so much to choose from! You know, just being together at Walt Disney World is celebration enough in my book!