Hello there Tessa!
It's great that you are planning your trip so far in advance! Four year olds are right at that perfect age where they can understand and reflect everything around them. It's going to be a wonderful time to take your daughter. One of my most favorite Character Breakfast is
Chef Mickey's. When the characters come to greet you, they are dressed up like chefs and are very friendly. I would definitely try to take her to
Cinderella's Royal Table (CRT) if she loves the princesses as most girls do!
I wouldn't say the
Tomorrowland Terrace Fireworks Dessert Party is hidden, it's just that it's not offered at all times of the year. I would call (407) 939-1947 to make your dining reservations as soon as you get to the 180 day window of your trip.
For Bibbidi, Bobbidi, Boutique, you will need to make a reservation as soon as you can; again 180 days prior to your arrival because they fill up fast. Try to make the reservation with plenty of time before your dining reservation for CRT so you have your daughter made up just like the other princesses!
Thank you so much for your asking the Moms Panel! There is plenty of time for you to ask as many questions as you desire! We are always here to help! Have a magical day!