Hi Joani,
Welcome to the Disney Parks Moms Panel with your question! I was happy to read your question because I have one of those "picky" princesses as well. With that said, we have never had a problem with finding something to eat for my princess. In my experience, the Cast Members and Chef's have been very accommodating to my daughter, and as long as they have the requested ingredients, they are more than happy to help out. With that said, if they do not serve a specific request (for example French Fries), they will not be able to accommodate your request.
Walt Disney World does try to offer a wide range of options and tries to accommodate
Special Dietary Requests. To ease your mind, when you make your dining reservations, check the box for food allergy or intolerance. This way, the chef will be aware that you may need a special request, and will be able to help in any way possible. When you arrive, ask to speak with the Chef or the manager to address your specific dietary needs.
While at Walt Disney World Resort, I do tend to make more dining reservations at
buffet locations. This way we have more of a selection and we all end up satisfied with our meals.
I hope you have a magical time on your Walt Disney World Resort Vacation this November Joani. Please let me know if you have any other questions while planning, I would be happy to help!
Stephanie