Hi, Karen! A think a solution for your family would be Coronado Springs. Until I stayed there this past December, I never realized what I was missing.
For your husband: the newly refurbished rooms are fabulous with the flat panel TV, refrigerator, deep brown furniture, quality linens and stacks of pillows.
For your kids: great pool area, nice food selection, 2 arcades, bike rentals, and lots of fun
For you: lovely resort, buildings surround Lago Dorado - a 22 acre lake, nice walking paths, very quiet.
Coronado Springs is a moderate resort with a deluxe resort feel. The downside of this resort is that there is a lot of walking. I suggest to request a newly refurbished room near El Centro (the lobby/food court area.) It is a bit of a walk to the main pool, but there are quiet pools close by if you don't want to make the walk.
Have fun picking a resort that best suits your family!