Hi Monica!
Thank you for visiting the Moms Panel!
The best way to see the show times and parade times in the theme parks is to check the calendar for the dates of your visit - click on the links below, and change the Month (top-right-hand corner) to May 2012.
Magic Kingdom Epcot Hollywood Studios Animal Kingdom
For anything not listed on the website, be sure to pick up a Times Guide as you enter each theme park, and you will see all the day's schedules, and details of Character Meet & Greets around the park.
The Disney Fairies and Tinker Bell can be found at the Adventureland Veranda in the Magic Kingdom, and one of the best ways to meet the Disney Princesses would be to make a dining reservation at
Cinderella's Royal Table (in Cinderella Castle, Magic Kingdom) or at
Akershus Royal Banquet Hall at the Norway Pavillion at Epcot. Advance dining reservations can be made
online or by calling (407) 939 3463, up to 180 days ahead of time.
If you have any ore questions, please come back and ask me - I would be happy to help you plan your magical vacation!