Hi Polly,
Welcome to the Disney Parks Moms Panel and thank you for asking us a question!
When we visited Walt Disney World Resort with our little guy when he was an infant, we wondered whether we needed to include him in our
dining reservations too. The short answer is yes, you should include your infant in your party total for all dining reservations, including
character dining locations. I encourage you to keep checking to see whether a table for 5 frees up at a time that works for you.
That being said, there have been times when we’ve had to add one person to our travelling party because they were able to join us at the last minute. If you explain the situation to the Cast Member at the podium when you check in, they should be able to accommodate your party, especially seeing as your extra Guest is an infant.
I hope my answer helps you plan your family’s upcoming vacation. Please don’t hesitate to come back and see us if you have any other questions.
Have a Magical Day,
Lynne