Hi Tracy!
I am going to assume with girls your daughters' ages seeing the princesses is a major priority. If you are looking for a meal where you will get a chance to meet multiple princesses, then you can narrow your choices to breakfast or lunch at Cinderella's Royal Table.
Dinner is not a typical character meal. You will get a chance to meet Cinderella in the lobby of the castle for pictures and an autograph, but no characters will visit your table during the meal. Instead the Fairy Godmother does a little show where she observes those guests celebrating special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries and engagements.
During breakfast and lunch, you meet Cinderella in the lobby just like during the dinner hours. While you eat your meal four or five different princesses will visit your table. On our last trip to Cinderella's Royal Table the princesses in attendance were Aurora, Snow White, Belle and Jasmine. The characters are always subject to change, but this is a general idea of who you might expect.
I personally enjoy the breakfast at the castle. I try to get one of the earliest reservations available so that we can start the day off with a great meal. I would recommend looking over the menus at
www.allears.net to get an idea of what food is served and choose breakfast or lunch based on which your family would enjoy more. From the allears homepage click on "Dining " at the top of the page and "The Menus" on the left side.
Have fun planning and please come back to the Moms Panel for any future questions!