Hello Barry,
Congratulations on planning your first family trip to Disney! We here at the Moms Panel are happy to help.
One of my favorite resorts is the BoardWalk Inn. But having a tween on your hands, I might suggest a one bedroom at the
BoardWalk Villas for your family. It will give your daughter some space for when your family decides to rest back at the room. The BoardWalk is a great location. You have several fantastic restaurants all within walking distance of the resort. You can even walk to Epcot or Hollywood Studios if you choose. At night, the BoardWalk comes to life with music and entertainers. I think your daughter will love it.
If your daughter likes to shop, be sure to stop at
TrenD in Downtown Disney. It's a posh boutique unlike any other store on property. She's sure to find a chic souvenir to bring home.
And while you're in Downtown Disney, check out
Characters-in-Flight, a 360-degree view of Disney World. It'll be hard for your daughter not to say "wow!"
Hope this helps. Good luck!