Hi Melanie,
Thanks for stopping by with your great question. I always like trying new restaurants at each trip and that is so easy to do since there is such a variety of amazing dining locations.
I would highly recommend doing dinner at
1900 Park Fare at Disney's Grand Floridian Resort. This dinner has Cinderella, Prince Charming and her stepmother and stepsisters. I often like to recommend this character dining option for older kids because the stepmother and stepsisters tend to be quite sarcastic and many small kids might not "get it" and think they are just mean. However, if your daughter will be 9, this might be a lot of fun for her, as their humor is quite funny! The food is some of the best with its buffet options including sushi, honey ham, and sliced strip loin of beef. I'm getting hungry just thinking about it.
Another fun option might be breakfast at
'Ohana at Disney's Polynesian Resort, where she can meet Lilo, Stitch and friends. The food is quite delicious and the atmosphere is Hawaiian style at its best.
Have a magical time and feel free to stop back by with more questions if they come up during your planning process.
~Allison L