Hi Shelley!
We have found that Walt Disney World Resort has been amazing at accommodating my son's food allergies and I'm sure it will be the same for your daughter's birthday celebration! I would recommend that all of your Advanced Dining Reservations reflect any dietary restrictions your group will have. Personally, I prefer booking reservations with my son's food allergies directly with a Cast Member rather than booking them online. You can call (407) WDW-DINE or (407) 939-3463 to make new Advanced Dining Reservations or modify an exiting reservation to include any food restrictions or allergies in your party. You can include your daughter's birthday celebration in your Advance Dining Reservations as well. Once you arrive at any Table Service restaurant, I would recommend reminding the server of your dietary restrictions. Generally, the chef will come to the table to assist in ordering food for anyone with food restrictions that is safe and that they will enjoy, including safe desserts.
For her big birthday celebration at
Cinderella's Royal Table, you have a few options. You can order a specialty cake to be delivered to any table service restaurant by calling (407) 827-2253. Be sure to indicate that the cake must be dairy-free and to give them at least 72 hours notice. If you are looking for a bigger princess celebration, you could arrange a Cinderella's Royal Table celebration package. I have heard amazing things about the “Her Royal Highness” package, which includes a tiara and a princess cake. To book these packages, you can email wdw.crt.special.events@disney.com. Again, be sure to include in your email that the cake will need to be dairy-free.
I know you will have a wonderful time celebrating your daughter's birthday celebration! TTFN!
Crystal B.