Hi there, Amber!
Welcome back to the Disney Parks Moms Panel, and thanks for this wonderful question. As much as the Disneyland Resort is a family-friendly destination, it's also an amazing getaway for adults. There are so many romantic and adult-friendly experiences in the parks and Disneyland Resort Hotels.
I'd love to share my top three romantic dining spots in the Disneyland Resort. First,
Napa Rose in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel & Spa is my top choice for amazing cuisine and fantastic cocktails and wine. You can also call to inquire about the Chef's Counter experience which is intimate and unforgettable as you watch chefs prepare your customized meal. Over in Disneyland Park, I'd recommend
Blue Bayou Restaurant for a romantic, one-of-a-kind experience in a "bayou" that is literally inside the Pirates of the Caribbean attraction. The filet and lobster here is one of my favorite meals. In Disney California Adventure Park, I recommend
Carthay Circle Restaurant for a fine dining experience that takes you into the Golden Age of Hollywood. I just adore the interior design of this location and the jazzy Disney music that pairs perfectly with the gourmet food and classic cocktails.
If you are looking for something more casual to cap off your evening, I recommend stopping by Trader Sam's Enchanted Tiki Bar in the Disneyland Hotel for tropical beverages and an immersive tiki experience.
I hope this helps, and I wish you both a very happily ever after for your anniversary trip!
-Jennifer