Hi Bridgette,
I'm sorry to hear about your confusion. The Deluxe Dining Plan is accepted at all of the restaurants referenced in this
2012 Deluxe Disney Dining Plan brochure. It should include all of the restaurants also offered on the standard Disney Dining Plan.
In order to get the best value out of the deluxe plan, you'll need to eat two table-service meals per day. By looking through the brochure, you'll see that restaurants are categorized by counter-service/quick-service (fast food), dinner shows, character meals, and table-service eateries.
Read through the brochure and if there is any specific restaurant that is missing from the list, call 407-WDW-DINE to see if it is an error.
If we can help further, just stop back with more details. Don't forget to make Advance Dining Reservations for your meals!