Hello Amy! Welcome to the Disney Parks Moms Panel.
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! My cousin was married in the
Disney's Wedding Pavilion at Walt Disney World Resort several years ago and it was her Fairy Tale come true.
As far as Dining Options for after the ceremony, there are several to choose from in the immediate area. However, I recommend that you contact a Cast Member at (407)939-1947 once you have decided on a venue as obtaining a table for 16 at any Dining Location at Walt Disney World Resort is often a tricky endeavor. You could try to book
Advanced Dining Reservations through the Walt Disney World Site or through your
My Disney Experience Account, but even at the 180-day mark for the beginning of May 2018, the only option available (so far) has been 1900 Park Fare at Disney's Grand Floridian Resort and Spa.
If you are looking for a more casual and fun experience for the kids in your party,
1900 Park Fare is a Character Dining Experience that combines delicious food with entertainment brought to the table.
If you are looking for a more formal dining experience, you will want to look into
Narcoossee's or
Citricos at Disney's Grand Floridian Resort and Spa (and book as early as possible).
Have an Endlessly Magical "I Do"!
~Todd