Hello, Kira!
Your Jedi recruit must be present for
Jedi Training: Trials of the Temple registration. My suggestion would be to send your husband and daughter to register as soon as
Disney's Hollywood Studios opens. While they are completing the registration process, you can check-in at
Hollywood & Vine for your character breakfast. In my experience, you are not seated immediately, so it is likely that your family can meet up with you before your table is ready. Currently, Jedi Training registration takes place at the Indiana Jones Adventure Outpost, near where you will be dining. Keep in mind that availability for training is offered on a first come, first-served basis with a limited number of spots available for each training session.
I hope this helps, and your Jedi recruit enjoys learning the ways of the Force. Please visit us again should you have other questions.
May the Force be with you!
Missy