Hi Julianne,
I know you must be feeling a little flustered not being able to find the parade/fireworks schedules with your vacation so near. I know I would be going crazy! The website has undergone some changes in the past couple of months, and the calendar is slowly starting to catch up.
To find a monthly calendar, go to disneyworld.com and pull down the "Discover" menu. Choose a park and click to get to that page. Scroll down to "Calendars" and click the link. This should take you to a monthly calendar for a specific theme park giving park hours. If you click on a date, a daily schedule with parades, entertainment and refurbishments should appear. Click
HERE for the Magic Kingdom calender.
If you still can't find the information you need, click
HERE for a schedule of all parades and fireworks from February through April 2009.
Have a magical vacation!