Hi, Natalie! There is a lot to do after the parks close! Here are some ideas for you:
-Try a round of
mini-golf at Winter Summerland (near Blizzard Beach) or Fantasia Gardens (near the Swan and Dolphin.)
-Visit
Downtown Disney for shopping, dinner, or a movie.
-Book a reservation for dinner at Chef Mickey's at the Contemporary.
-Take a ride to Animal Kingdom Lodge. Drop your 4 year old off at Simba's Clubhouse for a night of fun while you and your husband enjoy a quiet dinner at Jiko.
-Enjoy a nice evening at your resort. We spend so much time choosing just the right resort, then we don't spend any time there! Grab a counter service meal, sit by the pool and RELAX! This is your vacation, so take some time to take it easy!
I hope you find plenty to keep you busy!