Hi Michelle! How exciting to be planning for your daughter's first Walt Disney World vacation! I am sure it will be magical for both of you!
Your daughter might enjoy the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique experience before heading to Cinderellas Royal Table to dine. This is a princess "make over" opportunity with three different packages offered. Please click
HERE to see this described.
You will most likely want at least one character dining reservation where she can meet one on one with her favorite Disney names. My choice is Chef Mickey since it is the one place where you most likely will meet Mickey of course and also Minnie, Donald, Goofy, and Pluto. This is held at the Contemporary resort. For another princess experience try the Akershus in EPCOT's Norway pavilion.
There are also several tea party opportunities held at the Grand Floridian resort. Please click
HERE and
HERE for more information about these.
You can filter the attractions for each park by going
HERE and then clicking on RECOMMENDED AGES at the bottom left. This will give you a nice listing of what Disney feels is age appropriate and a good place to start when planning park visits. Make sure you find time to enjoy the park parades especially in Animal Kingdom and Magic Kingdom and the Wishes Fireworks and night time parade there as well.
Have a great time planning and remember to keep checking back to the main site as things will be changing for 2010!