Hi Kathy!
Thank you for visiting the Moms Panel!
Cinderella's Royal Table is a very magical dining experience, and one that I am sure your family will enjoy.
Guests who are paying for their dining with cash are welcome to customize their meals by splitting plates as they wish. But if you are on the
Disney Dining Plan, you have to stick with the plan. Officially, on the plan, you are not permitted to split meals to save your dining credits for elsewhere.
As with every dining experience, I would recommend asking your Cast Members about sharing a plate (even if you are using the Disney Dining Plan), as there may be someone who would be able to help your family share plates and make the best of the dining experience, to suit your family.
If you have any other questions, please come back and ask me - I would be happy to help you plan your magical vacation!